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January 30th, 2009 by hanamendoza24
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1. A man won’t let go if he really
loves you.
Do not hold on to someone who has let
go of you. He does not love you and
does not value having you. Believe me,
he will not let go if he really loves
you. There is another reason he is not
willing to tell.
2. Do not look for reasons why he
ended the relationship.
There is only one reason why he ended
your relationship. He just does not
love you. Do not waste your time
thinking of reasons or what you should
have done. Move on and be open to a
man who will truly love you.
3. Do not get hung up on your past.
Do not nag or distrust your current
boyfriend just because your ex hurt
you. Do not treat him or the
relationship the same way. Do not
compare. He will not react the same
way as your ex. Do not be worried that
your simple mistakes will cause him to
look for another girl. What happened
with your ex was not your fault. It
was not because you didn’t guard him
enough or you didn’t make him happy
enough.
4. Do not look into images.
How many times have you met a girl who
didn’t have the best image in school
or at the office, but you get to know
the girl and found out she was
actually extremely nice? Do not rely
on images. Oftentimes, it is far from
reality. Do not fear men just because
your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend
mistreated you.
5. Always have your own set of rules.
Set your limits on how far you’d go
for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to give
and do everything as long as it’s
worth it. And it’s worth it if the guy
is treating you right.
6. Do not be scared to lose him.
Don’t be scared that he’ll break up
with you. Once you are afraid of
losing him, you easily can be taken
advantage. Be strong and if something
is unacceptable, do not accept it and
speak up.
7. Avoid calling your guy.
It’s a guy thing. The relationship
will definitely be better if it’s the
guy who’s calling, not the girl. He
will get tired of you if you keep on
calling. He will lose interest and
challenge. More so, he will get
annoyed. But it’s a girl thing also
that your fingers get too itchy until
you dial his number. But avoid as much
as possible. Call only if really
needed (like checking if your
suspicions are reasonable).
8. There is a guy who will value you.
There is a guy out there who can make
you feel valued, appreciated, and
loved. And I mean, not just during
your first few weeks together. So
don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a
lesbian if you are not attracted to
women. There is a man out there who
can love you like a girl can.
Also, do not believe him when he says
it’s just the way he really is. He’s
not the sweet or expressive-type.
Remember during your first few weeks
together? Where has that sweet guy
gone? He simply is not that into you
anymore.
9. Always be the only one, no matter
what.
Do not ever fall for a guy who has
another girl, be it his wife,
girlfriend, or any girl that he says
he just can’t get rid of for whatever
reason. If you truly believe that he
loves you and for some reason, he
can’t leave or let go of another girl,
then you are no different from any
ordinary mistress.
10. He must respect you.
No matter how long the relationship
has been, he should always show
respect towards you.
11. If he fooled you, end it.
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